Custody includes legal custody (who makes major decisions) and physical custody (where the child lives). Courts in every state decide based on the child’s best interests, and many encourage parents to agree on a plan.
Common situations
- Creating a parenting plan during divorce or separation.
- Unmarried parents establishing custody and support.
- Modifying an order after a move, job change or new circumstances.
- Enforcing an order that isn’t being followed.
Child support
Each state uses a guideline formula based largely on both parents’ incomes and the parenting schedule. A lawyer checks that the inputs are right.
Preparing
Keep a calendar of parenting time, school and medical records, and respectful written communication with the other parent.
Frequently asked questions
Can I change a custody order?
Usually yes, if circumstances have changed significantly. The process depends on your state.
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